The Farewell

PG Jul 12, 2019 Comedy · 100 minutes that unfold at the gentle pace of real family time.
Critic darling
7.5/10
IMDb
97%
Fresh
89
89/100
Metacritic
4.06/5
Letterboxd
🎬
7.4/10
TMDB
Rewatch
warm comfort
Attention
full focus
Phone-check
low
Ages
holds up

The brief

Lulu Wang turns a deeply personal family story into something that feels both intimately specific and universally recognizable, anchored by Awkwafina's most restrained and genuine performance yet. The film moves at the pace of real family gatherings, full of awkward silences, forced celebrations, and those moments where grief and joy blur together in confusing ways. Zhao Shuzhen is magnetic as the unknowing grandmother, bringing warmth and stubborn charm to what could have been a maudlin setup. If you loved the cultural specificity of Minari or the family dynamics of Little Miss Sunshine, this will hit you right in the chest.

bittersweet family dynamics cross-cultural authenticity quiet emotional weight intergenerational love restrained grief warm melancholy

The verdict

If you appreciate slow-burn family dramas that find profound meaning in quiet moments and cultural authenticity, this is an emotionally rich film anchored by Awkwafina's career-best dramatic performance. If you need faster pacing or prefer straightforward narratives over contemplative stories about generational divides, you might find the deliberate rhythm and cultural specificity too subdued for your taste.

Watch with

  • 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Perfect for multigenerational family viewing
  • 👫 Ideal date night for emotional connection
  • ⚠️ Avoid with those dealing with terminal illness

Heads up

  • Terminal cancer diagnosis and death themes (moderate)
  • Family deception about serious illness (moderate)
  • Grief and loss of elderly family member (brief)

Credits

Director
Lulu Wang
Cast
Awkwafina, Zhao Shuzhen, Hong Lu, Hong Lin, Tzi Ma, Diana Lin Xiaojie, Yang Xuejian
Official synopsis

A headstrong Chinese-American woman returns to China when her beloved grandmother is given a terminal diagnosis.

The Double

Make a night of it
Poster for Raise the Red Lantern

Pair this with Raise the Red Lantern (1991)

Both explore family duty and sacrifice within Chinese cultural traditions.

Total runtime: 1h 40m + 2h 5m = 3h 45m

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