This Is Where I Leave You

R Sep 10, 2014 Drama · A well-paced 103 minutes that lets the ensemble breathe without overstaying its welcome.
Mixed reception
6.6/10
IMDb
45%
Rotten
44
44/100
Metacritic
3.23/5
Letterboxd
🎬
6.6/10
TMDB
Rewatch
warm comfort
Attention
half watch ok
Phone-check
medium
Ages
holds up

The brief

Shawn Levy trades his usual crowd-pleasing instincts for something messier and more authentic, letting Jason Bateman's deadpan cynicism and Tina Fey's sharp timing anchor a family dysfunction comedy that actually earns its emotional moments. The ensemble clicks naturally through awkward dinner conversations and old sibling rivalries, while Jane Fonda steals scenes as the oversharing matriarch who refuses to let anyone wallow in grief properly. It's got the warm, lived-in feeling of sitting shiva with people you love but can't stand for more than a few days. Perfect for anyone who loved The Royal Tenenbaums but wished it was less precious and more like an actual family reunion.

dysfunctional family bittersweet grief ensemble chemistry lived-in warmth awkward reunions sibling rivalry generational clashes

The verdict

If you love dysfunctional family comedies with authentic sibling dynamics and can handle raw, messy emotional moments, this delivers genuine laughs and heart through stellar performances from Bateman, Fey, and Jane Fonda. If you prefer tightly plotted stories or can't tolerate cringe-worthy family awkwardness, the meandering pace and uncomfortable dinner table scenes will test your patience.

Watch with

  • 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Perfect for family movie night (adults)
  • 👥 Great with friends who appreciate ensemble comedies
  • ⚠️ Skip if you're dealing with recent loss

Heads up

  • Death of parent (central plot point) (moderate)
  • Frank discussions of sex and relationships (moderate)
  • Brief scenes of emotional breakdown (brief)

Credits

Director
Shawn Levy
Cast
Jason Bateman, Tina Fey, Jane Fonda, Adam Driver, Rose Byrne, Corey Stoll, Kathryn Hahn
Official synopsis

When their father passes away, four grown, world-weary siblings return to their childhood home and are requested

The Double

Make a night of it
Poster for You Were Never Really Here

Pair this with You Were Never Really Here (2017)

Both explore damaged men confronting family trauma and seeking redemption.

Total runtime: 1h 43m + 1h 29m = 3h 12m

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